The Relationship Between Entitlement & Addiction
What is Entitlement?
Entitlement is the belief or perception that one deserves certain privileges, benefits, or special treatment, often without having earned them. In a psychological or social sense, it describes an attitude where individuals feel they are owed something simply because of who they are, rather than through effort or merit. However, entitlement can also have a more neutral or legal meaning. In government or law, an entitlement refers to a guaranteed right or benefit, such as Social Security or Medicare, which individuals receive because they meet specific eligibility requirements. More generally, entitlement can mean any rightful claim to something, such as employee benefits or contractual rights. Overall, the term can carry either a negative or neutral connotation depending on whether it refers to an unjustified sense of deservingness or a legitimate legal right.
Signs of Entitlement
Common signs of entitlement may include:
- Expecting special treatment or privileges without earning them
- Becoming angry or upset when things don’t go their way
- Taking credit for successes but blaming others for failures
- Showing little gratitude or appreciation for what they have
- Believing that rules or responsibilities don’t apply to them
- Struggling to accept criticism, feedback, or consequences
- Lacking empathy for others’ needs or feelings
- Frequently feeling wronged or victimized when denied something
- Manipulating situations or people to get what they want
- Expecting others to prioritize their needs or desires above all else
The Relationship Between Entitlement & Addiction
The relationship between entitlement and addiction is closely connected because entitlement often contributes to both the development and continuation of addictive behaviors. People who feel entitled may believe they deserve to feel good or escape discomfort, which can lead them to justify substance use or other harmful habits. This belief can make it easier to ignore consequences or minimize how their actions affect others. Entitlement can also interfere with recovery by causing individuals to resist taking responsibility, deny the seriousness of their problem, or expect others to fix it for them.
Addiction, in turn, can increase feelings of entitlement. As a person becomes more focused on satisfying cravings or avoiding withdrawal, they may start to rationalize destructive behavior, convincing themselves that their need for relief or pleasure is more important than rules or relationships. This pattern of justification and self-centeredness can damage trust and make recovery more difficult. Overcoming this connection often requires building humility, accountability, and empathy, which help individuals accept responsibility and develop healthier ways to cope.
How to Overcome Entitlement & Addiction
Overcoming entitlement and addiction requires self-awareness, accountability, and a willingness to change both mindset and behavior. The process begins with recognizing and admitting that entitlement and addiction are connected, and that both prevent personal growth and healthy relationships. Accepting responsibility for one’s actions is a key step, as it helps replace blame and excuses with honesty and self-reflection.
Building humility is essential. This means understanding that no one is owed special treatment or exemption from life’s challenges. Practicing gratitude can also help shift focus from what one feels deprived of to what one already has. Developing empathy strengthens relationships and helps individuals consider how their choices affect others.
Professional help, such as therapy, counseling, or support groups, can provide guidance and accountability throughout recovery. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), for example, helps individuals identify and change entitlement-driven thoughts. Establishing healthy routines, setting achievable goals, and surrounding oneself with supportive people can further reinforce positive change.
Ultimately, overcoming entitlement and addiction is about adopting a mindset of responsibility, balance, and gratitude, allowing individuals to live with greater purpose, integrity, and emotional health.
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